"No" is powerful, it can make relations it can also break relations. If you keep on saying no to everything, other people may call you rude, selfish or bad, but saying "No" is important. Say no to things you don't agree to, no to work that you hesitate to do. We should also learn to say No to help someone when it costs you much, cost not in the sense of money. Don't forcefully do something just to make a positive image of yourself, do it because you want to do something and help someone, otherwise learn to say no.
Saying no is fine. It will make you a confident person. We usually think or interpret that if we say no it will create a negative image on other people. But have we ever tried thinking what impact does it left on us. Saying yes to everything and unnecessarily agreeing with others always, will affect you deeply at some point in time. Just because we don’t want to hurt other’s feelings and make them upset and also we don’t want to become very selfish, we end up saying yes to many things which are not important for us. Blindly saying yes, jut for the sake of others is indirectly affecting ourselves and making things complicated for us.
If you want to be happy and make your life easier then you need to understand the importance of “NO”, and learn to say no when needed. Once you learn to say no, you will be able to create a healthy shield around you, which will help you in making and maintaining relations with others. This will also help you to differentiate between right and wrong.
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